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A Facebook Prediction – “Timeline Intersect”

With Facebook going public (IPO), there will be a massive influx of cash into the extremely popular social media giant.  This same phenomena occurred a few years ago with Google’s IPO and it will, inevitably, happen with Facebook.  How does a social media company spend money?  Development, lots and lots of development.

Facebook will now develop products at an accelerated pace (just as Google did with their IPO).  I believe, along with TV, News, Email, Web Searching, etc, one of these products/advancements will be a relational Timeline – I would call it “Timeline Intersect” (Zuckerberg can pay me later).

Just as Facebook recently released its individualized Timeline (replacing the old profile page), I believe there will be a future relationally connected Timeline.  Let me explain…

The Timeline is Facebook’s response to its customers demand (subconscious as it may be) to narrate their lives in a storyboard/timeline type fashion.  This allows you, the user, to see a timeline of your life, viewing how activities, events and statuses (what Ricoeur would call “emplotments”) fit together to tell your personal narrative.  I predict that this process will continue to evolve and this evolution will eventually lead to the option of viewing your timeline within relationship (connected/intersected) of other individuals’ (your Facebook friends) Timelines.  For example, you would see how your life (your “emplotments”) intersects with others.  These intersections will tell the relational narrative of your life, helping to create meaning and relational context to your individual “emplotments.”  This will allow others to see your Timeline of “emplotments” in the context of their “emplotments” and ultimately, potentially, in the larger human story within the Global Village (think of this as a giant social media version of the Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon game).

“Timeline Intersect” is coming, whatever Facebook ultimately names it.

Social Media has just begun its emergence into our culture.  It is amazing to think that just eight years ago Facebook did not exist (Facebook turns 8 this month).

Don’t Feed The Animals

The following is my latest article for the Vermilion Standard, published under the title: “Worry Clings To Us Only If We Feed It.”

You have probably seen the sign at different locations (zoos, national parks, etc.) that emphatically states: “Don’t feed the animals!”  If you feed the animals, it is not good for their diet and they will keep coming back for more.

This same warning can be translated in our lives about worry.  We can get fixated on an issue, a problem, or a dilemma and it ruminates and grows in our minds.  Consequently, we incessantly think about, dissect it, replay it, and rethink it.  This is the phenomenon we refer to as “worry.”

This is an issue that many people struggle with and an affliction that many people suffer from.  Worry is like a wild animal, it will eat your joy, happiness, attention, positive outlooks, etc. and will leave you empty and sick, evidenced through bitterness, impatience, selfishness, lack of appetite, ulcers, etc.   In short, worry will eat your joy and keep coming back for more.

This problem stems from our natural inclination to think, reflect, meditate and focus on things.  It other words, we are designed to fixate and focus on something.  Worry is, in fact, evidence of this truth.  It is the result of our fixation going off course and being misdirected.  We have been designed to fixate our lives on something and this something is God.  When this occurs, it is evidenced in purposed thanksgiving and humility.  The problem is, we like to focus on ourselves, our problems, etc. and so the natural inclination of our hearts becomes repositioned away from God and onto the unhealthy focus of our selves, our problems, our dilemmas and our circumstances.  This repositioning inevitably manifests itself as worry.

This common problem is addressed in the Bible and the Bible actually gives a treatment for our misaligned human hearts, evidenced in worry.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” (Philippians 4:6-7)  

We are instructed in everything, by prayer and with thanksgiving, to keep the object of our focus on God.  There are two key elements to this instruction.

First, we are called to pray.  In other words, to intentionally focus on God, ask for his help and seek his guidance; in other words, to get the focus off of us and onto God.  In my experience, most people who struggle with worry also struggle with prayer.  Worry and prayer are often at odds because they have different focuses.  Just as you can’t face North and South at the same time, you can’t have your heart focused on you (evidenced in worry) and on God (evidenced in prayer and thankfulness) simultaneously.

Second, we are called to be thankful.  If you struggle with worry, the Scriptures tell us to make a disciplined attempt to be thankful.  One way you can do this is by writing a list of everything you are thankful for, reading the list daily and adding to it regularly.  It won’t solve your problems, but it will put them in perspective.  The Bible teaches that prayer and thankfulness work to reposition our hearts, resulting in the treatment of the disease of selfishness, manifested as the symptom of worry.

The Bible says that the result of this repositioning is peace, contentment and joy.  How does that sound?  Are you experiencing this or are you so busy feeding the wild animal of worry that it has starved you from peace, contentment and joy?

Where is your focus and how is it manifesting itself in your life today?

Worry is like a wild animal.  If you feed it, it will just keep coming back for more.

Remember: “Don’t feed the animals!” 

I’m A Pastor – The Awkward Silence

Inspired by a conversation with my doctoral cohort, I created (“created” meaning I used a website where I typed dialogue and it created the movie for me) the following short video about the, all too common, awkward silence that follows in casual conversation when people discover you are a pastor.

I have experienced this more than once myself.  You meet someone in public (line at the grocery story, airplane, community event, etc.) and begin a casual relaxed conversation until the inevitable question of what you do for a living arrises.  This question, for most people, is innocuous but in our culture, for a pastor, this is often a “conversation killer.”  Whether it is because people begin thinking through everything they have just said through a reverse filter or if it is because of some other reason, the phenomena exists and it is awkward.  I am sure there are sociological and spiritual reasons why this occurs and that there will be lots of opinions it (feel free to share them here).  Regardless, all pastors can agree that the phenomena exists, it is awkward and it is all too common.

‘Twas The Blank Before Christmas

The following is an original poem I wrote over several weeks for our Advent Sermon Series this year at Parkview Alliance Church.  The video is the dramatic presentation of the completed poem performed on Christmas Eve by the talented Ralph T.



‘Twas The Blank Before Christmas
by Bryce Ashlin-Mayo

‘Twas Centuries before Christmas and all through the land,
People longed for a Saviour, a deliver and mighty right hand,
They awaited someone to be the new King,
To reign forever – peace and goodwill to bring.

The people waited with great expectation
For centuries and centuries with increased anticipation
The Messiah was prophesied to come as a child
Not as a giant but as a man – meek and mild

‘Twas fourteen months before Christmas, and a miracle was to commence
Zechariah, the priest, was in the temple about to light the incense
And then an Angel appeared, announcing he would have a son
But that would mean Elizabeth’s barrenness would have to be undone

Zechariah questioned this possibility
How could it happen with Elizabeth’s infertility?
Then nine months later they had a boy
They named him John and were full of joy

Now John grew up to be quite strange
He ate locusts and honey and lived on the range
In the Spirit of Elijah, he preached in the land
“Repent,” he would say, “the Kingdom of God is at hand”

‘Twas nine months before Christmas and a young virgin was dreaming
Of the man she would marry, her excitement was beaming
Then out of thin air, an Angel did appear
Saying you are highly favoured, you don’t have to fear

You will have a child and the Son of God is He.
Mary responded: “I am a virgin, how can this be?
But what will Joseph think – the man I am to wed?
But if it is your will, may it be as you have said!”

‘Twas days before Christmas and the young couple was found
leaving from Nazareth and heading to Joseph’s hometown
So off they went on an eighty-mile trek
Through rough terrain  – all for a population check.

‘Twas the night Before Christmas while ‘tired and weary
they entered Bethlehem in quite a hurry
Traveling for days, the baby’s birth was imminent
They were placed in a barn with animals’ excrement

Later that night, Mary gave birth to a boy
She placed him in swaddling clothes and was full of joy
As the angel had told, they named the boy “Jesus”
He was God’s son, who came to save us

In that same night, Angels did appear
They came to the Shepherds whose reaction was fear
They were told to go to Bethlehem and see the new King
Born in a stable, peace and good will to bring

Jesus, God’s son, Immanuel is He
Came to this world for you and for me
For if you call on His name, you will be saved
And experience freedom from sin, for all the enslaved.

All of this was foreseen by the prophets of old
We remember these things, the truth to behold
That day of Christ’s birth would have been quite the sight
Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night

White Christmas

The following article was originally published in The Vermilion Standard.

Although we have been blessed with a long and beautiful Fall, we are reminded that one of the benefits to living in our part of the world is the gift of snow and the very strong probability of a white Christmas.  There is something about a white Christmas that rings true to the spirit of the holidays.  Perhaps it is connected with the myth of Santa Claus and the stories of the North Pole.  Perhaps it is related to our desire to stay home and stay warm with family and friends, and the snow helps to keep us indoors.  Or perhaps there is something about the snow that speaks to the real message of Christmas according to the Bible.

Snow has a wonderful quality when it first falls.  It acts like a thick large blanket draping over nature’s withering Fall landscape, replacing it with the purity of snow.  This image of pure white snow is one the Bible uses to talk about forgiveness of our sin, our wrongs, and our impurity that is only possible through Christ. “Purify me from my sins, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow.“  (Psalm 51:7, NLT)  The Bible uses the image of pure white snow to illustrate forgiveness that is possible through Christ.

At Christmas, we remember the birth of Christ, our Saviour.  Scripture says that Jesus did not come to condemn the world but to save the world.  “For God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through him.” (John 3:16-17, NLT)

This Christmas, as the snow falls and gently blankets the ground, may you know the promise that Jesus offers: eternal life and forgiveness from sin for all those who believe.  Christmas is not just intended to remind us of the birth of Jesus, but also the purpose for which he came – to bring life, abundant and eternal for those who believe.  This new life, the reality of purity as white as snow, is re-communicated to us visually every time we look outside and see the blanket of white pure snow that gently falls to the ground.

This Christmas consider the image of snow.  Consider the forgiveness that is possible in Christ, in whom you may know the hope, love and joy that the Christmas season celebrates.  A celebration of Jesus – the baby who was born called “Immanuel,” meaning “God with us.”

May you truly have a white Christmas!