All posts by Bryce Ashlin-Mayo

Review of: “Understanding God’s Will”

Last week, I read Understanding God’s Will: How to Hack the Equation without Formulas by Kyle Lake and for the most part I liked it. Although it has been on my every expanding “to read” pile on my bookshelf, I read it mainly because I was preaching on God’s Will and I found it was helpful in many ways as I was formulating my thoughts and ideas. Although there wasn’t anything really new in the book for me, it is rather well written and he is very good at relaying his thoughts with an effective and humorous use of sarcasm. The book would be great for those who have grown up in the church and have been indoctrinated with a very formulaic (modern) view of God’s will and want to read a basic but well-written critique of that view with a simple presentation of an alternative view. If however, you are already versed in different views of God’s will, specifically the difference between modern and postmodern views, than this book may be simple review.

In terms of sparking my thinking, I really liked the following quote as it resonated with me and sparked further reflection:

“The very nature of formulas [relating to the will of God like a recipe formula] collides head-on with the ways of God, because formulas are about control, predictability, and certainty.” page 8.

I think there are so many things we like to control about God, whether that is through understanding his will, our prayer lives, our hermeneutical (interpretation of scripture) practices, or our theology. The problem is I don’t think you can ever put God in the proverbial box and when we do, it only presents itself with problems. I also wonder how much of our current theological practices go back to the birth of the scientific method in which one presents a theory (hypothesis) and then tries to prove that theory with empirical, observable and scientific evidence. Although that may work for science, does it work for theology and can we ever understand God like the created natural world through a formula or a system? Maybe you can get a glimpse of the creator by his creation much like you can begin to understand an artist by their art, but how far do you take that? As usually, I don’t have answers, just questions but these are important question and ones I find filling more and more of my thoughts these days.

Before I end this post, I wanted to say that it is deeply saddening that Kyle is no longer with us – he tragically died recently. I never knew Kyle or heard of him before his death, but I have to admit his death had an impact on me. I think it is primarily because he would be about the same age as me, with a family (including twins) that are the same age as mine. He seemed like an amazing man, husband, father, pastor, leader, author and speaker that I wish I could have gotten to know – even if it was just through more of his published works.

Life at Mach 10

My life seems like a blur these days and as a result I haven’t had a lot of time to relax, let alone write in my blog. I thought, for the sake of time, I would briefly update you on what is going on in my world these days:

  • I am officially interning again (for my Master’s Degree) which means doing my job/ministry with added papers and evaluations.
  • I just finished Kyle Lake’s book “Understanding God’s Will” as part of some research – I’ll post something about it soon.
  • I have been preaching the last few Sundays (Lessons from the Water) and will continue into August.
  • I am the Lone Ranger (minus Tonto) these days at church as our Sr. Pastor is on holidays and our new Youth Pastor has yet to come on staff.
  • I am in the process of setting up a new website for our church with some cool technology and features, this has been a long process (the first company fell through) and I am looking forward to having it done. The new site goes live at the end of August.
  • We are fast approaching the next DeConference in September – I am looking forward to hanging out with other Small Group Pastors again for a day.
  • A couple friends (Randall and Greg) and I just finished filming a new promotional video for our Church’s September Outreach. It is in post-production and I’ll link to it once it is up on the web.
  • My trip to Bolivia is just two months away and although the logistics are planned, the money is raise (thanks to those from church who supported me), there is still so much to do…
  • I still need to finished the revisions to the second edition of my Small Group book…I am not sure how Pastors find time to write regularly.
  • My family and I are enjoying the summer – for more family info and pictures check out Laurie’s blog.
  • I am still planning my 30 books and the Bible in 90 days for September so if you have any suggestions please let me know.
  • I have not gotten on my motorbike near enough this Summer – something I need to remedy.
  • Started to watch the first season of NCIS – It’s okay – much like a cross between CSI and JAG.
  • My friend, Randall, and I (well mostly him) are beginning to work on a 3D animated short entitled “Handle with Care.”

I have been reflecting over the last few days/weeks on how blessed I am with the friends I have. I have great friends in ministry who I love to hang-out with, I have great friends in church who are fun and I can be myself with, and great friends with people outside the church. I take this for granted too often.

I was also struck with the realization that God has faithfully walked with us. We couldn’t have planned our situation out better if we knew everything that would have taken place. God is truly good and has been there for us through good and bad.

Finally, I have an amazing wife and three incredible kids. They are awesome and I take them for granted too often.

Misunderstanding Killed the Cat (I’m sure that’s how it goes)

I had the experience this week of feeling misunderstood. I always try to communicate clearly but there are inevitably times, for whatever reason, that either I misspeak or the other person hears wrong. It is frustrating. I don’t mind it when people disagree with me for something I actually think, but when it is a misunderstanding, it is frustrating.

Isn’t that the nature of language though? Language is prone to misunderstanding – ask anyone who has ever spoken through an interpreter or used a second language. This leads to an interesting question: I wonder what God thinks/feels when someone misunderstands a portion of Scripture? Obviously there is a reason God choose oral and written language to communicate his divinely inspired revelation. He used real people to write Scripture in real times, in real cultures, in real languages, and with real genres. He obviously knew the inevitable problems of language and potential for it being misunderstood. Or what about Jesus, who was often misunderstood by people who listened to him with their own agenda?

These are interesting questions and ones that I don’t necessarily expect to find the answers to, but the search is interesting nonetheless.