All posts by Bryce Ashlin-Mayo

No Perfect People Allowed

I finished No Perfect People Allowed by John Burke and it was remarkable. The book is worth reading just for the stories of people coming to God and God changing their lives. It is not a “how to” book but it is the story and journey of what God is doing in and through Gateway Community Church in Texas. It is a great read and although Burke can at times come across as always knowing exactly what to say and when to say it (probably the inevitable result of writing your own stories), he has some fantastic insights into church – especially the church in a postmodern culture.

This book really caused me to think and reflect on my ministry. I am not saying that I would do everything he or his church does, but I think there are some incredible lessons to be learned through it. Here are a few of the lessons I learnt and things I have been reflecting on:
1) We need to learn to give people space in church – allow them to be themselves and for God to work in their lives at His pace and not our own.
2) We need to create and facilitate a culture of dialogue where people can feel comfortable expressing and talking about their thought and even doubts without fear of judgement and rejection.
3) I love the fact that they are able to be relevant, accepting and tolerant (all ideals I share) without losing their convictions (something Jesus practiced).
4) I was reminded that we need to allow people to be human again – broken and bruised, to not be afraid by that brokenness as it is much like our own, whether we like it or not.
5) I was reminded that Jesus is the one that heals and changes people not us – something we preach about in church but seldom practice.

All in all I was moved, convicted, inspired, disturbed and propelled as it has permeated by thoughts over the last week or two. All in all it is a great book and definitely worth reading.

New Church Website

We are almost finished our transition to our new church website.

http://www.devonalliancechurch.ca/

The saga that began a year ago is almost over as we make the final few adjustments in our website transition. I think the website is pretty amazing from the public website dimension to the private church community dimension. Not only can people participate in online communities, update their own database information and get involved in ministries, each ministry leader has access to internet based tools so that they are empowered and equipped to simply update their own areas of the website and individual communities or ministries. It has also decentralized the process of website creation and allowed ministry leaders to update their own sections of the website with limited access only to those areas. It also puts people privacy and information in their hands as they control what information is shared and given to the public. My hope is that this technology will help to facility community and communication in church.

Bruno Video

Over the last month Randall, Greg and I have been working on this promotional video for our Fall Family Sunday at Church (it’s now an antipated yearly production). This is the video as shown in church this last week.

This is the link for the video (25 megs): download here

It was a lot of fun to do and I only wish we had outtakes recorded. Randal’s “Ohhhh Cleopatra” took a few takes to get an “appropriate” sound and we both messed up lines like crazy. Kudos go mainly to Randal for the voice and 3D animation of Bruno – he spent a ton of time dong the post-production/animation – his creative genius always amazes me. Although I am the on screen anti-talent, Greg and Randal did most of the work. They are great friends and I thoroughly enjoy working on these projects with them. Honestly…it’s just fun to hang-out.

As a side note, Nathanial and Sydney have started to use Bruno’s phrase: “See ya later cupcakes.” It was cute for a while but after the twentieth time in less than accurate usage it is getting rather annoying.

Human Trafficking

I recently watched Human Trafficing on DVD. This was one of those movies I knew would be moving but I wasn’t sure how and too what extent. However I wasn’t expecting it to effect me the way it did. I think the movie did a fantastic job of dramatizing the reality, the disturbing and horrible reality, of human trafficking in our world.

Although this is an issue that you don’t hear about often, trading humans is the third most common illegally traded thing in our world next to drugs and firearms. And it isn’t slowing down as criminals realize that although they can only sell drugs only once, they can sell women several times a day (stats say 8-15 times). Human trafficking may just seem like just a foreign problem, something that only happens on the other side of the globe, but the fact remains that when it comes to sex trafficing, North America is the main consumer for these women and children (that phrase sounds terrifyingly accurate).

The movie portrays several different ways women (and little boys) get sold into sex slavery. The examples they give are mail-order brides, kidnapping, parents selling their children for money, conning girlfriends, and conning models (especially young models). The methods are vast and the results are devastating.

Anyone who thinks prostitution is just a volitional choice for women (or men) needs to watch this movie and get a glimpse of the manipulation and intimidation these women are put through and how they are treated. There maybe some who volitionally choose prostitution for their career but they are the very very small minority. This issue needs to be seen for the reality it is.

My eyes were opened and something has to happen…I am not sure what my role will be in ending this cruel reality in our world but I can’t sit idly by in ignorance anymore.

Here are just a few stats on human trafficking I found (source: wikiepedia):

  • a women will often serve 8-15 men a day.
  • 800,000 to 900,000 people are trafficked across borders each year.
  • 20,000 to 40,000 people are trafficked into the US each year.
  • 800 people are trafficked into Canada each year.